By Dr Usman Muhammad Bugaje
A Paper Presented at the Symposium on Islam and Contemporary
Issues, organised by Movement for Islamic Culture & Awareness,
held at the Main Auditorium of the Nigerian Law School Victoria
Island, Lagos. On Sunday, October 26, 1997.
Introduction
Men have always assumed some superiority over women and have sought
to dominate the world and relegate women to the background. Cultures
and civilisation have sought to confer legitimacy to this male superiority
and have accordingly developed myths and conventions that tend to
perpetuate them. Through time women have consistently, if grudgingly,
borne the brunt of this male domination. Such inequities have been
a feature of all human societies, from antiquity to our contemporary
times. Religions, especially revealed ones, often intervene to redress
such intrinsic imbalance in human relations. Christianity, at least
in the form we know it today, rather unfortunately, did not help
matters, for by blaming a woman (Eve) as the source of the down-fall
of man, it in fact compounded this inequity, and unwittingly gave
men a new impetus to relegate women to the background. It accordingly
denied women even their independent identity, having to dissolve
in to that of their husbands on marriage. Islam, however, dealt
with the issue decisively, but ignorance and enduring male arrogance
have always connived to deny women what Islam has given them. This
was further compounded by the incorporation of the Muslim world
in to the contemporary world, shaped as it had been by Western liberalism
which is rooted in a rebellion against a Christian God. With both
Christianity and Islam marginalised in our contemporary world, the
job of intervention and the restoration of equity in this gender
relationship has now been taken over by the United Nation and chains
of NGOs. The idea of women empowerment is a concept created
by the UN, championed by UNIFEM and supported by the various NGOs.
Is Empowerment of women the answer to the problem? Can the UN, supported
by the host of, admittedly good intentioned agencies, redress the
imbalance and restore equity in gender relations? Does Islam offer
a better hope and if it does, will our contemporary Muslims allow
it? These are some of the questions that this paper seeks to address.
But first some caution. Foremost, the relation between men and women,
which this paper is obliged to touch, is too often clouded by emotion.
This may have to do with the nature of the relationship between
men and women which is essentially emotive. For it is difficult
to explain rationally why we love the people we love or why we marry
the spouses we marry. Emotions, we hardly need say, cloud vision,
obstruct rationality and make it difficult to fathom issues. Second,
Muslims scholars have remained decades (some would say centuries)
behind the very societies they are supposed to guide. Many of them
appear to be oblivious of the age in which they live and seem unwilling
to exert themselves as their predecessors had done in developing
rulings (fatawi) which takes into account the dynamics of society
and address their immediate context. This not only stultifies the
Sharia, especially in the eyes of the uninformed, but, it also holds
the Muslim community hostage to the imbecility and ineptitude of
those who are supposed to lead it. Many followers are consequently
left to wallow in increasing confusion as to the position of the
Sharia on many issues, especially the issue of women. Third,
the prevailing intellectual decadence of the Muslim community has
over several decades forged a timid mind which had been keen on
conformity and weary of creativity. Thus the average Muslim mind
has lost its analytical capacity and has become mechanical in its
thinking, content with whatever is passed to it as knowledge. The
mind has been particularly intimidated into conformity by a clergy
who have masked their incompetence by curtailing the kind of questions
that can be raised and by raising the qualification of the jurist
who could answer these questions to such humanly unattainable heights,
that we are left to helplessly and endlessly wait for some imaginary
mujtahid to emerge from only God knows where. Thus the average Muslim
mind fears raising questions and finds it easier to evade rather
than face issues, leaving many topical questions unanswered. Far
from deterring us, these problems ought to in fact motivate us the
more, they are raised here mainly to help explain some of the questions
to be raised and put in context some of the liberties the author
may wish to take. But it seems necessary to first appreciate the
features and contours of our contemporary world, the terrain within
which we shall be applying what ever ideas we may come up with.
Our Contemporary World
Our contemporary world is nothing but the extension and perfection
of a culture which took its roots from the European renaissance
which itself started in 15th century Europe. This is a culture which
rebelled against God as symbolised by the Christian Churches and
sought to create a civilisation which is man-centred and where the
pursuit of pleasure becomes the overriding objective in life. The
Renaissance Movement thought that mans craving for pleasure
and material progress has been blocked or at least delayed by the
idea of a god and sought, therefore, to wean off man from god and
release him from all inhibitions so that man can, for once, be free
to explore his full potentials uninhibited. This new man, also called
the renaissance man or the universal man,
limitless in his capabilities to acquire knowledge and in his capabilities
for development, was deemed to be the centre, nay the master of
the universe. The vision of the new man was to be found in the motto
of the renaissance, captured in the famous remark of one of its
chief prophets, Leon Battista Alberti (d. 1472) that "a man
can do all things if he will". This was to form the foundations
of renaissance humanism and the modern world it gave birth to.
By the 19th century, renaissance had acquired sufficient momentum
and its new man, enough audacity to declare God dead. Soon books
were being written about the history of God and Karl Marx was reported
to have said that God never created man, but it was man who created
God, in other words, God was nothing but a figment of mans
imagination. By the middle of this century, however, some of the
promises of the renaissance were still to be realised. The illusive
search for happiness has only produced sadness and misery as evidenced
by the dramatic rise of suicide cases, mental illnesses and violent
crimes. The El Dorado promised by communism remained a mirage until
the whole edifice collapsed like the proverbial house of cards.
The glitter of science and technology had by the second half of
this century began to fade in the face of the destruction it had
wrought not only on the physical environment but also on mans
social environment. Social and economic inequality, weakening of
the family unit and the crisis of values, were to unleash series
of unprecedented consequences that continue to suffocate the life
of the modern man. In the words of a prominent Western scholar,
"the modern era had put its enthusiastic hopes in the mastery
of nature and society. For more than two centuries man believed
that the continued perfecting of rationality would have as a result
the unceasing growth of his power and, consequently, an increase
in well-being and happiness, freedom and equality among people.
Now, not only has he experienced the limits of his power, but he
has discovered that the rational and technological civilisation
creates new problems and that it endangers the balance between man
and nature, individual and society. The deception", he added,
"is all the more painful because the progressivist had exalted
peoples desires and confidence."
Such was the tragic end of modernism. In the eloquent words of Erich
Fromm, "in the nineteen century the problem was that God is
dead, in the twentieth century the problem is that man is dead."Our
contemporary world is a post modern world in which the variety of
the problems created by modernism are being addressed. Admittedly
many of these problems have not been sufficiently diagnosed or sufficiently
comprehended. Even in the physical environment, which lends itself
to easy enquiry, when we thought we have learnt enough of the global
warming and ozone layer, the problems of EL-NINO is surfacing out
of the blue. The emergence of a new brand of tuberculosis that defies
all known remedies, may well be the tip of an iceberg. The Social
environment which is certainly more complex, is even more difficult
to fathom. The crisis of values triggered by renaissance and championed
by modernism, the confusion of roles and the consequent identity
crisis and the rising domestic violence and the breakdown of the
family, are only aspects of a complex situation in a constant state
of flux. Though Europe and the rest of the Western world provided
the main theatre for this drama, the Muslims world in particular
and the non-western world in general, have increasingly been drawn
and incorporated in to this contemporary world, initially through
imperialism, subsequently through education and recently, but, perhaps
more effectively, through satellite communication. The relationship
between men and women, which is the concern of this paper, has been
dramatically changed and shaped by the social crisis which has become
the trade-mark of our contemporary world. This is what makes it
necessary to first appreciate the features and contours of this
contemporary world before delving in to this issue.
The Problem
The plight of women in the middle ages, when Europe was in the
full grips of Christianity, is fairly explicable, for the Bible
seem to have placed the entire blame for the descent of man at the
door of the woman. In the popular literature of the middle ages,
the woman was likened to the Satan who worked day and night for
the destruction of the man. The Church in Europe remained stuck
with its misogyny up through the 18th century when it presided over
the famous debate in France on whether a woman had a soul or not.
What appeared inexplicable was the continuation of these prejudices
well after the renaissance and the weakening of the grip of the
Church and the liberalisation of thoughts and ideas. It was even
more surprising that a whole century after the French revolution
of 1789, with its promise for peoples rights and democracy,
women in the West remain suppressed. Writing in 1866, George Eliot
observed, "A woman can hardly ever choose ... she is dependent
on what happens to her. She must take meaner things, because only
meaner things are within her reach." One can feel the sense
of frustration in this remark. What is news, however, is not the
remark , but the fact that George Eliot is a pseudonym of an English
woman novelist Mary Ann Evans (1819-80), who apparently dared not
use her proper feminine name in a society so dominated by men that
works like hers could only be taken seriously if they were to come
from men. She had six years earlier written that, "the happiest
women, like the happiest nations, have no history", in her
book, The Mill on the Floss, where she "portrayed
rural Victorian society, particularly its intellectual hypocrisy".
This situation seemed to have continued unabated well in to the
second half of this century and seem to have given impetus to what
is commonly referred to as feminism. The lives and works of three
prominent Western feminists summarises the situation. Virginia Woolf,
(1882-1941) a British novelist, philosopher and critic took the
themes of the tensions for combining marriage and career in her
book The Voyage Out and pursued the issue of economic independence
for women in her book The Years 1928. That she tragically ended
her life through suicide by drowning herself may not be unconnected
with the tensions of her times. Gloria Steinem, (1943- ) an American
journalist and liberal feminist emerged as a leading figure in American
new womens movement in the late 1960s, co-founded the
womens action alliance in 1970 and also co-founded the Ms
Magazine. She was one of those who gave feminism a concrete shape,
betraying the cumulative oppression and frustration of women behind
the thin veneer, or as we may prefer in Nigeria, behind the smoke
screen of freedom and equality. Her perception of feminism is captured
in her oft quoted statement "We are becoming the men we wanted
to marry" and another attributed to her, "a woman without
a man is like a fish without a bicycle". Yet another woman
in this class is Juliet Mitchell, a British psychoanalyst and writer.
She took feminism further first by her article titled The Longest
Revolution, in 1966 and later her books titled, Womens Estate
(1971) and Psychoanalysis and Feminism (1974). She seemed to have
been the first to combine socialism and feminism and to use Marxist
theory to explain some of the reasons behind women oppression in
the West. Juliet Mitchell has had tremendous influence on feminist
thinking and one could see her hands in to a lot of the women struggles
against oppression in the West.
The influences of these and other feminists writers can easily be
detected in the current debate on gender equity. We must not make
the mistake that many pious Muslims make of dismissing feminism.
One does not have to like feminism to appreciate the situational
problems that brought it about. Dismissing it, as many Muslims are
apt to doing, is ignoring the circumstances, which is neither fair
nor panacea. If nothing else, in feminism we have a lesson to learn
and that is: if we are not prepared to allow equity, then we should
be prepared to live with anarchy. And one should quickly add, single
parent family, which had been a phenomenon restricted to non-Muslim
communities is slowly creeping in to the Muslim community. This
is only one form of anarchy. Lesbianism is another. And one could
go on.
In the Muslim world the literature on this subject, especially authored
by women, may not be as rich, but that is not to say the oppression
was any less. Here in pre-Jihad Hausaland, presently Northern States
of Nigeria, reading the works of Shehu Usman Dan Fodio, particularly
his Nurul-al-Bab one can see a lot parallel with the misogyny of
the Victorian days in Europe, in spite of the equitable and humane
provisions made by the Sharia. The presence of the Sharia, undoubtedly,
made the difference. Even as the provisions of the Sharia did not
stop the oppression, they made Shehu Usmans case easier, for
all he needed do was to enlighten the society and draw attentions
to these provisions. Of course, even then it was far from easy,
not only because of the opposition he faced from nor other than
scholars themselves, but also because no sooner had the tempo of
the jihad began to wane and ignorance started to creep, the situation
reverted, gradually, back to the pre-Jihad periods. Today the situation
of Muslim women, in terms of rights and equity is very much close
to the pre-Sokoto Jihad period. It may at first sound like an exaggeration
until we visit the Area Courts in the North and perhaps the customary
courts in the South. Or better still until we allow the women to
tell their tales.
Many Muslim women will today find the offer of the UN and the host
of NGOs quite attractive, not so much because Islam has not
given her something better, but rather because they are either not
sufficiently aware or the men, better still, Muslim scholars, are
not quite ready to concede to them what Islam has given them. But
coming from the West, such offers of emancipation are, rather naturally,
rooted in the rebellion of the renaissance, imbued with a consuming
hedonism and embellished in a rhetoric that is designed, like a
bait, to capture a prey. The social context of the offer itself
presents some problems for Muslims, for our contemporary modern
world, having made the search for pleasure a major, some would say,
the major, objective in life, has predicated gender relationship
on sheer lust. Modelling, fashion and advertising agencies are up
and about exciting our base desires and making lust a major consideration
in our decisions in life including the important institution of
marriage. The institution of marriage itself has lost its sacredness
in the West, it is, in fact, fast loosing its meaning, so such offers
tend not only to ignore Muslim sensibility, invert Muslim scale
of priority, but may actually find no place to accommodate religion,
having completely dispensed with it a long time ago.
It is worth recalling that the globilisation of gender equity started
quite recently, with the United Nation declaring 1975 as the International
Womens Year. Sequel to this the decade 1976-1985, was declared
the Decade for Women, during which international agencies as well
as some governments focused attention on what came to be popularly
referred to as women issues. This decade was crowned
by the Nairobi conference on women in 1985 in which forward-looking
strategies for women to be implemented by the year 2000, were adopted.
Then came the Cairo International Conference on Population and Development
in 1994 which seemed to focus on the independence and autonomy of
women even with a family context. Indeed several conferences, conventions
and activities of a host of international agencies took place during
the 1985-1994 period to prepare the grounds and minds for the famous
Beijing Conference in 1995. It was in Beijing more than anywhere
the issue of empowerment was focused and made such an indispensable
condition for world progress and development. These two decades,
during which the UN championed the globilisation of the women issues,
happened to be the two decades during which the UN became increasingly
a tool in the hands of a few Western nations who were using it to
achieve their selfish political goals. The role of the UN in the
Palestinian Crisis, its role in the Gulf War and its performance,
or lack of it, in Bosnia, left many in no doubt that someone was
using the UN to subvert Islam and Muslim body politic. This left
many Muslims unsure about the role of the UN in respect of the women
issues.
Is Empowerment the Solution?
The word empowerment, seems to be of very recent etymology,
it became widely used and popularised by the Draft Platform
of Action of the Beijing conference of 1995. Though the etymology
appear recent, the morphology of the word betrays a deep root in
the psyche of a civilisation which had been born out of conflict
and remains ridden with conflict. For empowerment suggests the giving
of power to someone who has been deprived of it, someone who will
remain vulnerable without that power, someone whose hope for justice
and fairness seem to hinge on the possession of that power. This
power, which is held to be the solution to all the problems, has
to be wrested from some despot, presumably, in this case, man. This
power also holds a promise for a panacea. All these features underscore
the origin of this word in Western conflict embedded psyche. This
conflict which began with renaissance and continue to date, appears
to be one thread which runs through Western social and intellectual
development. First it was a conflict between man and God, then between
the state and Church, then science and nature, then Proletariat
and the bourgeoisie, then women and man and young and old.
There is therefore the fear that empowerment conceived in this context
may only aggravate this perceived conflict rather than solve it.
In the same way that the empowerment of the proletariat over the
bourgeoisie led to the crumbling of the communist edifice leaving
hardly any pieces to pick. The difference being that while we can
happily do without communism, one is not sure if the same can be
said of the institution of the family. Empowerment, at least in
the way it has been conceived in Beijing, may only aggravate the
war of the sexes which had been triggered earlier. Empowerment,
if and when it succeeds, may be the cost of complementarity of the
sexes which again is essential for the health and function of the
human family. One is not sure from where empowerment will drive
its power of implementation. So far it looks like it will be the
UN and its Member states, which undoubtedly have immense coercive
powers, but can coercive power alone impose a code of behaviour
between such intimate partners as husband and wives, brothers and
daughters, ect.? Granted the UN and its members states will be wise
enough to appreciate the folly, will they then appeal to the minds
and hearts of their citizens? But does the UN and its member states
and even the NGOs have a real place in peoples heart?
To put it bluntly does UN and others in the business of empowerment
believe that people will abandon what their religions stipulate
in favour of some resolution from Beijing? The UN has immense power,
they can send troops anywhere in the world and these troops can
wreck all manners of havoc, but unfortunately for the UN or any
of its members state, it has no heavens or hell to reward or punish
people after death.
What has Islam to offer?
It must first be appreciated that Islam is a religion of balance;
balance between the mundane and the spiritual; balance between work
and worship; balance between self-preservation and selflessness.
This balance or ADL, as the Quran calls it, is the very
essence of the human creation, in which the body and spirit are
united and balanced and on whose shoulders consequently lies the
responsibility of the maintenance of the balance in nature, both
societal balance as well as the eco-system. Islam as a religion
seeks first to maintain that balance in man and then guides man
to maintain that balance in society and the eco-system which plays
host to the human society. The disruption of this balance is what
Islam calls injustice, DHULM. A man who violates the balance between
his spirit and his body is called unjust in the Quran. Similarly
the violation of the balance in human society or the eco-system
is seen as injustice. This explains the Qurans choice
of ADL to describe that balance for ADL also means justice,
harmony and complementarity. Similarly, in the relations between
the two opposite sexes, Islam seeks to ensure ADL, balance,
justice, harmony and above all love and mercy. How exactly did Islam
go about ensuring this?
1. At the time of Islams intervention in the seventh century,
the human society then (as indeed today) was replete with a variety
of societal injustices, claims of superiority of one group over
the other and discriminations on the basis of sex, lineage, tribe,
race, etc. One of the first things Islam did was to demolish all
these artificial barriers in the famous verse: "O Mankind we
created you from a single (pair) of a male and female, and made
you in to nations and tribes, that ye may know each other (not that
ye may despise each other). Verily the most honoured of you in the
sight of God is (he who is) the most righteous of you. And God has
full knowledge and is well acquainted (with all things)." It
is significant that the verse started with gender discrimination.
The message is unmistakably clear that men and women are in the
sight of their creator equal, the only way one can be better than
the other is by being more righteous. But even here, none can flaunt
about his iman and brag, because luckily only God Himself knows
who really is more righteous. As if to pre-empt mens intransigence,
Allah continued to reinforce this position in several verses of
the Quran stressing this equality and balance.
2. Another intervention which was as quick as it was sharp was in
the arrival of the female child. The female sex in the seventh century
Arabia was a sort of abomination, the mere announcement that a wife
had begotten a female child used to evoke anger and disappointment
in the husband and the female child may end up, as many did, being
buried alive in the Arabian sand without as much as a remorse in
a society that has completely lost its balance and sense of justice.
The Quran strongly warned not only those doing these killings
but even those who express anger at the arrival of the female child,
describing graphically the attitude, it says, "When the news
is brought to one of them, of (the birth of) a female (child), his
face darkens, and he is filled with inward grief!" (Q. 16:58)
The Quran unequivocally abolished the practice not only by
promising a severe penalty in the day of judgement but by instituting
the life for life injunction in the Sharia. The prophet
of Islam followed these sticks, as it were, with a big carrot when
he announced to his companions that anybody who has been blessed
with two female children and he brought them up very well, with
love and kindness, Allah will on that account grant him paradise.
Of the people listening some had only one female child and they
kept asking the Prophet: what about one? The Prophet, in his characteristic
condescension, granted that even one would do. In another hadith,
the Prophet said, "Whoever has a female child and does not
bury her alive, nor holds her in contempt, nor prefers his male
child above her, God will make him enter into paradise." (Abu
Dawud)
3. The Prophet of Islam not only said that the search for knowledge
was compulsory on every Muslim male and female, but he also said
who ever educates a male educates an individual and who ever educates
a female educates a nation. Here not only does the Prophet give
priority to the education of the female but also by likening the
female with the nation he conferred a special position and by virtue
of that position a special role for the female. That an individual
female is nation is a concept that requires a whole book to expound,
but for our immediate purpose here it will suffice to point to the
fact that the female which alone harbours the womb and carries the
heaviest responsibility in child bearing also represent the pedestal
on which the future of mankind as a whole revolves. The female to
this extent symbolises the human races and the custodian of human
values and the conscience of society. If she is left ignorant and
backward, so will the nation and if she is educated and advanced,
so will the nation. This point has been amply demonstrated by the
jihad of Usman Dan Fodio and is today being re-enacted in the Republic
of the Sudan which saw tremendous transformation only after educating
and incorporating its women in its struggle for a just society.
4. We may wish to recall the eagerness with which the companions
of the Prophet tried to excel each other in the doing of good and
were always asking the Prophet how they could increase their good
and become better. In one of these inquiries, the Prophet, as if
to summarise the situation, informed them that the best among them
is actually the one who is best to his wife (family). This is a
very profound position not only in the seventh century Arabia where
wives were no more than chattels but even today when they appear
to be the least of the worries of men. By making the state of wives
the very measure of the quality of men, Islam, more than any other
religion or ideology, has placed women in a pedestal which guarantees
their happiness and welfare. If wives of Muslim men are not the
happiest of wives, it is not because of Islam, it is in spite of
it.
5. We are all too aware of the companion who came to the Prophet
telling him that he was rich and in a position to help and be kind
to people and he wanted the Prophet to tell him, of the people on
earth, who deserves his benevolence most. The Prophet in this well
known Hadith replied the man: "Your mother", the man asked,
"then who?", the Prophet repeated: "Your mother",
he continued to ask, "then who?", the Prophet repeated
for the third time: "Your mother", before saying "your
father", in the fourth instance. This special position of the
mother had been preceded by verses of the Quran and supplemented
by other statements of the Prophet. In the words of the Quran,
"And we have enjoined on man (to be good) to his parents: in
travail upon travail did his mother bear him, in years twain was
his weaning: (hear the command), Show gratitude to Me and
thy parents: to Me is thy final Goal." (Q.31:14) It is not
difficult, therefore to understand why the prophet said that, "Paradise
lies at the feet of mothers." (Muslim)
So, as a child, as a wife and as a mother, Islam has given a woman
such special and distinguished position that nor other culture or
civilisation has given her and that ought to be the envy of men.
But let us still go a little further and see in what other ways
has Islam empowered women, so that we can be intelligible to our
contemporaries who live in this age of empowerment.
What has Islam to offer?
It must first be appreciated that Islam is a religion of balance;
balance between the mundane and the spiritual; balance between work
and worship; balance between self-preservation and selflessness.
This balance or ADL, as the Quran calls it, is the very
essence of the human creation, in which the body and spirit are
united and balanced and on whose shoulders consequently lies the
responsibility of the maintenance of the balance in nature, both
societal balance as well as the eco-system. Islam as a religion
seeks first to maintain that balance in man and then guides man
to maintain that balance in society and the eco-system which plays
host to the human society. The disruption of this balance is what
Islam calls injustice, DHULM. A man who violates the balance between
his spirit and his body is called unjust in the Quran. Similarly
the violation of the balance in human society or the eco-system
is seen as injustice. This explains the Qurans choice
of ADL to describe that balance for ADL also means justice,
harmony and complementarity. Similarly, in the relations between
the two opposite sexes, Islam seeks to ensure ADL, balance,
justice, harmony and above all love and mercy. How exactly did Islam
go about ensuring this?
1. At the time of Islams intervention in the seventh century,
the human society then (as indeed today) was replete with a variety
of societal injustices, claims of superiority of one group over
the other and discriminations on the basis of sex, lineage, tribe,
race, etc. One of the first things Islam did was to demolish all
these artificial barriers in the famous verse: "O Mankind we
created you from a single (pair) of a male and female, and made
you in to nations and tribes, that ye may know each other (not that
ye may despise each other). Verily the most honoured of you in the
sight of God is (he who is) the most righteous of you. And God has
full knowledge and is well acquainted (with all things)." It
is significant that the verse started with gender discrimination.
The message is unmistakably clear that men and women are in the
sight of their creator equal, the only way one can be better than
the other is by being more righteous. But even here, none can flaunt
about his iman and brag, because luckily only God Himself knows
who really is more righteous. As if to pre-empt mens intransigence,
Allah continued to reinforce this position in several verses of
the Quran stressing this equality and balance.
2. Another intervention which was as quick as it was sharp was in
the arrival of the female child. The female sex in the seventh century
Arabia was a sort of abomination, the mere announcement that a wife
had begotten a female child used to evoke anger and disappointment
in the husband and the female child may end up, as many did, being
buried alive in the Arabian sand without as much as a remorse in
a society that has completely lost its balance and sense of justice.
The Quran strongly warned not only those doing these killings
but even those who express anger at the arrival of the female child,
describing graphically the attitude, it says, "When the news
is brought to one of them, of (the birth of) a female (child), his
face darkens, and he is filled with inward grief!" (Q. 16:58)
The Quran unequivocally abolished the practice not only by
promising a severe penalty in the day of judgement but by instituting
the life for life injunction in the Sharia. The prophet
of Islam followed these sticks, as it were, with a big carrot when
he announced to his companions that anybody who has been blessed
with two female children and he brought them up very well, with
love and kindness, Allah will on that account grant him paradise.
Of the people listening some had only one female child and they
kept asking the Prophet: what about one? The Prophet, in his characteristic
condescension, granted that even one would do. In another hadith,
the Prophet said, "Whoever has a female child and does not
bury her alive, nor holds her in contempt, nor prefers his male
child above her, God will make him enter into paradise." (Abu
Dawud)
3. The Prophet of Islam not only said that the search for knowledge
was compulsory on every Muslim male and female, but he also said
who ever educates a male educates an individual and who ever educates
a female educates a nation. Here not only does the Prophet give
priority to the education of the female but also by likening the
female with the nation he conferred a special position and by virtue
of that position a special role for the female. That an individual
female is nation is a concept that requires a whole book to expound,
but for our immediate purpose here it will suffice to point to the
fact that the female which alone harbours the womb and carries the
heaviest responsibility in child bearing also represent the pedestal
on which the future of mankind as a whole revolves. The female to
this extent symbolises the human races and the custodian of human
values and the conscience of society. If she is left ignorant and
backward, so will the nation and if she is educated and advanced,
so will the nation. This point has been amply demonstrated by the
jihad of Usman Dan Fodio and is today being re-enacted in the Republic
of the Sudan which saw tremendous transformation only after educating
and incorporating its women in its struggle for a just society.
4. We may wish to recall the eagerness with which the companions
of the Prophet tried to excel each other in the doing of good and
were always asking the Prophet how they could increase their good
and become better. In one of these inquiries, the Prophet, as if
to summarise the situation, informed them that the best among them
is actually the one who is best to his wife (family). This is a
very profound position not only in the seventh century Arabia where
wives were no more than chattels but even today when they appear
to be the least of the worries of men. By making the state of wives
the very measure of the quality of men, Islam, more than any other
religion or ideology, has placed women in a pedestal which guarantees
their happiness and welfare. If wives of Muslim men are not the
happiest of wives, it is not because of Islam, it is in spite of
it.
5. We are all too aware of the companion who came to the Prophet
telling him that he was rich and in a position to help and be kind
to people and he wanted the Prophet to tell him, of the people on
earth, who deserves his benevolence most. The Prophet in this well
known Hadith replied the man: "Your mother", the man asked,
"then who?", the Prophet repeated: "Your mother",
he continued to ask, "then who?", the Prophet repeated
for the third time: "Your mother", before saying "your
father", in the fourth instance. This special position of the
mother had been preceded by verses of the Quran and supplemented
by other statements of the Prophet. In the words of the Quran,
"And we have enjoined on man (to be good) to his parents: in
travail upon travail did his mother bear him, in years twain was
his weaning: (hear the command), Show gratitude to Me and
thy parents: to Me is thy final Goal." (Q.31:14) It is not
difficult, therefore to understand why the prophet said that, "Paradise
lies at the feet of mothers." (Muslim)
So, as a child, as a wife and as a mother, Islam has given a woman
such special and distinguished position that nor other culture or
civilisation has given her and that ought to be the envy of men.
But let us still go a little further and see in what other ways
has Islam empowered women, so that we can be intelligible to our
contemporaries who live in this age of empowerment.
Islams Own Empowerment
1. Perhaps the first and most important empowerment is give woman
her own separate personality that does not dissolve into that of
a man on account of marriage or any other account for that matter.
There is certainly no better empowerment than to be ones own self.
The idea of being an appendage of man, in some cultures mans
personal property, robs her of all powers and denies her an independent
life of her own. Islam wishes to produce a woman who is not only
of independent personality, with a life of her own, but also one
who does not nurse any feeling of deficiency because she is a woman.
This is particularly relevant today when women have been made to
feel a deep sense of deficiency and consequently see their equality
in terms of equating to men in almost every thing, dressing like
men, behaving as tough as men and insisting in doing those jobs
and holding those offices that are thought to be exclusive to men.
The kind of personality that Islam seeks to build is also one which
will save women from the torments of having to dance to whims and
caprices of men, as the modelling industry amply demonstrate. Too
often women go through all manners of dieting and work-outs not
for their own good but for meeting mens expectation of beauty,
some times they undertake measures that are clearly injurious to
their very health like the bleaching of their skins and the implants
of silicon to boost their bust-line. The personality Islam seeks
to bestow is one which gives women confidence, security and esteem
which allows them to deal with men as equals with out having to
play to their gallery or aspire to behave like men.
2. The Prophet of Islam not only made the education of male and
female compulsory but he appointed a separate day in which he attended
to the educational needs of the women. One woman who made the best
of this opportunity, rather understandably, was his youngest wife
Aisha. She learnt so much and had a wonderful memory that the prophet
told his companions that they could take half of their knowledge
of Islam from this red girl, referring to Aisha. By this statement,
the Prophet was actually appointing Aisha, to what today we call
a professorial chair, in the university of the Prophet. By this
appointment of a woman in this exalted position the prophet was
elevating women to the highest and perhaps the most prestigious
of position of power, for knowledge is indeed the greatest source
of power. We must thank Allah that Aisha lived long after the Prophet
during which time she transmitted large numbers of hadith, the fourth
largest, corrected numerous others and taught many men and women.
3. The average Muslim woman today may not quite understand the noise
made about economic empowerment, largely because she has always
been empowered; her dowry has always been hers, not even her parents
can take any part thereof without her consent and permission; her
wealth has always been hers, if she works she never had to operate
a joint account with her husband, who will then decide what to do
with the money. A lot of what is called economic empowerment, Islam
had given women 14 centuries ago. If over time and due to societal
ignorance this is denied her she can best recover this through a
process of re-education and enlightenment. Her economic independence
is a right given her by the Most High and no one can deny her. This
right to own her property uninhibited must not, however, be confused
with the right to work to earn money. The issue of work has to be
weighed against the non-material needs of the family and the conveniences
of the couple, for work touches on issues that Islam deems more
important than material possession.
4. Allahs call to stand up to injustice in society and endeavour
to correct them was not restricted to men only it was a general
call addressed to all Muslims, and women are just as equally liable
as the men. For the avoidance of doubt when Allah brought up the
issue in Surah al-Tauba, he made it amply clear that he meant both
men and women working together, in His sublime words: " The
believers, men and women, are protectors, one of another: they enjoin
what is just, and forbid what is evil: they observe regular prayers,
practice regular charity and obey God and his apostle. On them will
God pour His mercy: for God is exalted in power, wise. God hath
promised to believers, men an women gardens under which rivers flow,
to dwell therein, and beautiful mansions in gardens of ever lasting
bliss. But the greatest bliss is the good pleasure of God: that
is the supreme felicity." What the Most High is saying is that
Muslim women are empowered to supervise, improve on and correct
the social order. They are thus empowered to participate in the
running of every aspect of state and society, without prejudice
to their responsibilities as mothers or wives.
5. To the extent that this correction of injustice of society requires
political action as it too often does, then women have a responsibility
to partake in politics not just as passive voters but also and if
need be as active participants. What is important for the Muslim
women here is that politics is not a past time or a hobby but a
serious business. Politics is not an end in itself but a means to
a higher end and that is the cleansing of and the improvement on
society. Some Turkish women who joined politics as elected members
of the municipality (under the REFAH Islamic party) have scored
great success in the elimination of prostitution and drugs, unlike
the men before them, in the Turkish cities on the eastern borders
with the Soviet Republics. That women can take responsibilities
and head units and institutions has never been in doubt in the Islamic
tradition. This idea is clear and unambiguously conveyed in the
very hadith of the Prophet that says "every one of you is a
shepherd, and every shepherd will be held responsible for his flock,
.... a woman is a shepherd in the house of her husband ... "
Here then are examples of what we may call Islams empowerment
of women. What must be noted is that this is empowerment without
the confrontation and bitterness and without the excessive competitiveness
and the confusion of between equality and uniformity that so characterises
the empowerment in vogue. As FOMWAN would say, "setting women
against men in rivalry specifically for power and wealth, (which
is what is meant by empowerment) is a piece of social engineering
on par with the communist experiment in equality based on the mistaken
idea that all human beings are the same." What FOMWAN seems
to be saying is that just as the communist edifice crumbled so would
any notion or institution which chose to ignore reality and build
castles in the air, as it were.
Clarification of certain Issues
It may still be necessary to go a little further to clarify certain
issue that appear to many, especially to non-Muslims, to contradict
the exalted position Islam had accorded women as has been discussed
above. Some of these issues include the share of inheritance, the
issue of evidence, polygamy, restriction in a marriage to non-Muslim
men and invalidity of Women political leadership.
Inheritance - That a Muslim woman receives half of what a
man receives in the share of inheritance has lead many an ignorant
observer to rush to the conclusion that Islam values woman as half
the value of man. Those who mean mischief have found a ready example
of Islams oppression of women and a ready ear in those ignorant
non-Muslim observers, or so they thought. The fact is however different.
First the Islamic laws of inheritance are easily the most equitable
that mankind has known, but it is beyond the scope of this short
paragraph to go further, the interested reader can inquire further
in so may published works. Here we can only point the fact that
women in Islam, unlike their Hindu or post-modern counterpart, receive
dowry in marriage from a man. Besides, as a wife all her basic needs
of food, cloth and shelter are provided for by her husband. When
not married she remains the responsibility of her father or brother
whose duty it is to take care of her. By simple arithmetic the woman
who gets half of what her male brother gets could end up twice richer
than the same brother. So Islam is simply being practical, and the
logic is clearly unassailable. If any has a better system let him
share his wisdom with all and sundry, we should all be ready to
learn.
Evidence - In the course of the evolution of the Sharia,
some of the sources were interpreted to mean that in certain circumstances
the Sharia either doesnt admit the evidence of women or it
takes the evidence of two women in place of that of one man. But
the Sharia is not static it evolves over time to meet the dynamics
of society. Surprisingly, even the Muslims, who ought to know better,
are resisting this dynamism of the Sharia. But luckily scholars
in the Sudan, who more than any other Muslim community today on
the globe, are having to live the Sharia in the present time, not
in the past, have re-examined these interpretations in our contemporary
context and have now given women equality in evidence. In respect
of the verse in al-Baqra, (Q.2:282) for example, they have argued
that at that point in time, seventh century Arabia, women were not
involved in commercial transactions and hence were not deemed to
be familiar enough with the intricacies of trade to make their evidence
in such matters reliable. Today, however, many women are involved
and quite familiar with trade and commerce thus obviating the need
to undervalue their evidence. The details, it would be appreciated,
cannot be provided here.
Polygamy - This is one touchy issue which can hardly be resolved
in a paragraph but on which luckily a lot has been written. While
we refer readers to more detailed works on the subject, we need
mention one very important point: that Marriage in Islam is not
absolutely compulsory and if one wishes to marry he is free to enshrine
such conditions as the contracting parties may wish to consent to
and this ought to take care of the fears of those who do not, for
whatever reason, wish to be part of a polygamous family. One may
also be tempted to ask why wouldnt women be granted the same
opportunity, so that they can also have multiple husbands. We only
need to point to one fact, that in a polygamy, for every child both
the mother as well as the father can be known with certainty, while
in a polyandry there could be no doubt about the mother but it will
be difficult to establish the father with absolute certainty. Islam
deems certainty in the parentage of children too seriously to risk
any confusion.
Restriction in the marriage - While Islam allows Muslim
men to marry women from among the people of the book. Jews and Christians,
It does not allow Muslim women same, is this not a form of discrimination?
How many times has one heard Muslims, especially the men, trying
to explain by pointing to the fact that because women are weak their
is the fear that a non-Muslim husband may either convert her to
his religion or carry the children from this marriage over to his
religion. This, however, is not Islams reason, it only shows
how uninformed Muslims themselves are about the Sharia. First Islam
does not view a woman as weak on matters of faith and conviction,
for Islam knew the generation of Makkan women who made the first
and the second hijra against all manners of threats and hardship.
It should also be recalled that the first person to die of the torture
in Makka was a Muslim women. We actually need not go very far, in
Nigeria we also know of army generals who will come out to command
troops but go home to stoop and be commanded by a woman. Islams
reason has nothing to do with this idea (or is it figments of imagination?)
of the weakness of women. The main reason is simple and easy to
comprehend. In the Sharia the married woman has a right to be fed,
clothed and sheltered by her husband, and these rights are justiciable.
In other words if the husband should fail in his duty she could
go to a Sharia court which will force him to pay up. If, however,
the husband is not a Muslim the Sharia cannot enforce itself on
a non-Muslim. On the other hand if the wife is non-Muslim and she
goes to court the Muslim husband will be forced to pay up. The restriction
is not therefore a discrimination, on the contrary it is meant to
secure and uphold the rights Islam had given married women.
Political Leadership - We have already seen the need, some
would say necessity, for women to participate in politics, but can
a woman hold the highest political post of the head of state? Most
Muslims would say no a woman cannot hold the post of the head of
state. The evidence hinges on the hadith which says that: "a
nation would never succeed that make woman in charge of her affairs."
This evidence has however been faulted by some scholars. First,
one of the scholars argued, the hadith does not seem to be in agreement
of the spirit of the story of Bilqis the queen of Sheba in the Quran,
for Bilqis, who was the head of her state, and was praised by Quran
for her wits and sagacity and actually succeeded since she came
into Islam along with her people. Secondly the hadith itself could
not pass the credibility test on three counts. Third there is no
explicit text of the Quran which says no to women leadership.
Some scholars therefore believe that there is no barrier to women
leadership any more than the standards that Islam has placed for
such leadership, which applies to any Muslim, male or female.